Cherishing the life🌸

Hey, visitors hope you are doing well. Life is very unpredictable, we don’t know what is going to happen next. The only thing we know is now . The present moment is precious and we should cherish each and every thing of it.

Being positive all the time is not possible and that is not the thing we should do. Accepting the fact as it is will help you a lot. Instead of Focusing on adversity try to focus on the lesson it is trying to teach you and the solutions. Focus on the things that you can control. The thing you can control is your reaction to the situation and perspective.

Don’t wait for the moment to become a memory to cherish it. Live in the moment and cherish the people who are there for you, the time you get to spend with them, the things you get to enjoy life now. Cherish the little happiness you get when you do what you love. Following your passion , trying new things and doing something for your loved ones. The most pure joy is making someone smile . That someone can be you too. You can make yourself smile by doing what gives you joy.

Cherish the beauty around you. The birds, trees, seas, breeze of air, the scenery the moon and the stars the sunshine. Live in the moment keep smiling and loving yourself and everything around you. Cherish your life🌸

If you can’t change it, change your attitude 💯

Hey,visitors hope you all are doing great. Change is inevitable process. Even if we are afraid of change, we have to face it. It’s a bit of uncomfortable and uncertain process. We can’t just change the situation but we can change our attitude towards it. Attitude plays an important role in life. Having very low or very high attitude is dangerous. Just same as having low self confidence and over self confidence is harmful.

There needs to be a balance of it. Situations and people’s behavior is unpredictable. Many times things won’t happen as we expect it to be. We get disappointed easily and keep blaming and crying. Instead of that we should change our attitude towards it. If life throws you changes just take it as an great opportunity and overcome that challenge. You should analyze what you can control and what you can’t. Focus on what you can and act on it.

Change is beautiful at the end. You should change certain things in yourself. As we are not perfect so try to improve your good habits to better and bad habits to good ones. Change the way you think, perceive, love , dress . Come out of your comfort zone and try something you would not try on first place. Everything changes nothing lasts forever but the time we are in just be present in the moment and do whatever you can do to make the present beautiful. Embrace the change and learn to accept it.

Your attitude is everything in life. Having a grateful, positive, growth mindset is very helpful. Thank you so much for reading. Much love and healings to you ❤.

“Whatever you decide to do, make sure it will make you happy “

Hey, visitors hope you all are doing great. Our life is outcome of our choices we make on everyday basis. Life is not happening to you, it’s happening for you. You should be yours before you are someone else’s. Water your today to bloom in your tomorrow. Believe that there is time for you to be whatever you want to be. Make someone smile everyday , but remember that you are someone too.

We all grow at different pace, and that’s okay. You are worthy even if you don’t feel like it. If you’re are searching for that one person that will change your life, take a look in the mirror 🪞. No matter how prepared we are the unexpected will come to us, so no need to worry about it just keep walking.

Your boundaries are important and deserve to be honored. What’s meant for you will always be yours. Nothing outside of you has power over you. You decide how you do things , think, feel. Take full ownership and become free. How your life feels is more important than how it looks.

Do what feels right to you, you will be criticized anyway. Be proud of who you are, and not ashamed of how someone else sees you. Learn to love yourself ruthlessly and then watch everything around you transform in the most beautiful ways ✨.

As i have used all scattered quotes and combined in one post and made it more powerful . This is life, there are different ways of happiness and everyone has their own definition of happiness. Instead of making others feel wrong about their way, you should embrace your own happiness and accept others for who they are. Combine all the little things that makes you happy and you will never doubt yourself.

“Whatever you decide to do, make sure it makes you happy ” love yourself and others ❤. Be a kind soul in a world of messed up people.

Thank you so much for reading ❤much love and healings to you.🌼

Every action doesn’t need your reaction💯

Hey, visitors hope you all are doing great and as today is the last day of 2021 let’s reflect on the year and the lessons we learned and apply it to the new year. The most important lessons of the all time is that every action doesn’t require your reaction. Well, i know people’s behaviors, the way they speak rubbish about us and try to drag us down is not at all acceptable. But the fact is that it’s not us all the time who triggers them to behave ill with us. It’s their own insecurities, narcissism, jealousy, manipulativenss or traumas. We often find people venting their anger out on us with no reason or just targeting us so we would react and they would satisfy their ego.

Narcissism is unavoidable, these people will never say that they are wrong they will use harsh words and show how you are insecure and wrong and play the victim game all the time. In reality, they are projecting their insecurities on us and we get hurt . You may think no matter what you do for them they will always find a way to hurt you. You should know such behaviors and avoid this negative people at any cost. If it’s avoidable you should cut them off from your phone, stop meeting them and having any conversation with them. Because other people’s energy do affect our mental peace. They remove their frustration on us and eventually we do the same with others.

Sometimes these people are our closed ones or we have them in workplace which is unavoidable. They will try to trigger you for no damn reason. They will always find a way to show how you are wrong, talk behind your back. These negative people just wants a reaction from you so that , they can make you feel worse. What’s a thought without power , it’s nothing. If you give the thought the power to serve you it will do , if hurt you , it will do. Basically, we tend to give quick reactions so , we need to stay super calm if we don’t want these people affect us. As you know let them say, when they will not get a reaction from you they will stop at some time being. Try to mirror them their behavior, they might understand it’s them and how does it feel to get the taste of their own medicine.

Don’t let their opinions affect you. You know why they are behaving in such a way . Just say to them i don’t know what trauma made you behave in such a way but i hope you heal your wounds so that you don’t keep hurting others. When they say something mean , they want you to say something mean in return, so they can continue the fight and make you feel worse. If you don’t react to them at all they will just try and try and give up. Not every action needs a reaction. Their behavior is not in our control. But our reaction to it is. I am not saying to accept their toxic behavior, do what is right. But once you know their behavior that this person is a narcissistic, negative or of a victim mindset don’t let their actions affect you and stop reacting to them.

Then there comes the victim players. They will blame to anyone or anything for their own failures. They think things happen to them and the whole world is against them, trying to defeat them. They are kind of manipulative in some way. They will make you feel worse for even feeling a certain emotions. If something bad happen to you and you are crying they will say what’s the point in crying you did that so this happened. They will blame you for even weather changes😂p.s just kidding. Not for the weather change but for mood change of theirs. They didn’t do their work whole day because of being lazy and they will blame you that you kept texting them, calling them disturbing them and so did they didn’t finish it. Arguing with them is like telling a fish to climb a tree.

Understanding these behaviors will make your life peaceful ,as you know what their problem is . When someones behaviors is repetitively negative or victim , manipulative it’s a trauma. So, don’t feed their feelings by reacting to them and not every action needs a reaction. Practice meditation take a deep breathe when you encounter someone with these traits.

Thank you so much for reading. Wishing you a happy new year 🎉 😊 may your life be filled with abundance, love ,blessings, strength and happiness. Much love and healings to you ❤.

When you feel tired learn to rest not quit.

Hey, visitors hope you all are doing great. As this year is coming to an end soon, we need to recharge our batteries and get charged for the exciting ,hopeful new year. We don’t have to wait for new year to implement something new in our lives or change ourselves for better. Every day is new day, new birth of emotions, breathe, love , ideas and challenges. To cope up with these things we need energy and which nowadays is getting exhausted quite easily. Because everyone and everything is on quick phase. Being tired not only physically but mentally too is very often .

We all tend to quit things and get irritated just because something doesn’t work at the first place. Sometimes we have to try damn hard still the progress is not visible. We measure progress on huge metrics if we want something we want it now , if you want to start eating healthy you won’t just hop into the vegetables and avoid fast food intake in a day. Habit needs time to inbuilt and let go. You can’t just get rid of fast foods in a day and avoid the appetite for it. But you can lesser the amount of its intake day by day. That’s progress and it should be measured on small steps. When you feel tired and exhausted it’s okay to feel not okay. It’s okay sometimes to just lay on the couch and do nothing. We are humans we do get tired and we need energy for it and most importantly discipline and patience for letting things to happen.

Don’t just quit when you think you don’t see the progress on huge level and you feel hopeless. Keep trying and you will achieve it. Learn when to rest and when to start. Don’t over work yourself on one day and do nothing on the other. Balance is important in life. You can’t be healthy in a day if you follow diet and do exercise one day and nothing on the other. Patience is the key , don’t just give up , rest for a while , energize yourself by eating on time, keeping yourself hydrated, having good amount of sleep and staying away from the negative content and drama that disrupts your mental peace.

Thank you so much for reading. Much love ❤ and healings💫 to you.

The power of now 💯

Hey, visitors hope you all are doing great. Life has many uncertainties and unexpected turns. Regretting about the past and worrying about the future will make the present moment unworthy. Living in the mind and over thinking kills the joy in life. We never know what will come next so just live in the moment breathe now, love now , take risks now don’t depend on tomorrow , Don’t procrastinate things which you can do now. Be kind , be grateful for everything you have now.

Express your emotions, roam wherever you want,do what you desire . Believe in yourself, those who don’t believe in the magic will never find it. To find the magic in yourself believe in yourself. The road might be hard to walk but it is definitely worth it. Be consistent in your efforts do something that makes you feel alive everyday. Do things that fuels your passion and give your best. Sometimes, we don’t feel like doing things it’s okay to rest don’t exhaust yourself but Don’t be lazy and do it regularly.

Be grateful for whatever you have now and try to be down to earth. Do grounding exercises and breathing exercises. Go around in nature spend time with your loved ones atleast talk to them everyday make them feel loved. Take care of your health don’t make it suffer. Choose quality over quantity even with people. Don’t surround yourself with negative people or people with lack mindset.

Today is the day which you have never experienced earlier make the best out of it. You are the creator of your own life . Your choices makes your life . You are the artist of your day so don’t see life as black and white there are many colors out there . Experience every bit of life. Enjoy little things in life. Appreciate, be grateful, love yourself, be kind to others. Do everything you want do now in the moment. Be present and make the best out it.

Thank you , so much for reading. Much love and healings to you ❤.

Look deep into nature, and then you will understand everything better🌼

Hey,visitors hope you all are doing great. Amidst the nature are good things hidden. As we are a part of nature , we should always take time out and be in nature. Nature is the best remedy for any problems. Don’t miss out any chance to stay close to nature and enjoy the natural sunlight, scenery, sounds of water,birds , amazing sky and the feeling of lightness. The nature teaches us that it’s okay to change , there is time for everything and sun and moon shines when their time arrives . There is no comparison between anything. Everything is beautiful in their own way. Learn to appreciate the change and each thing is unique. We should not judge fish in ability to fly.

How the life has many colors, the sky when it sets has many different layers just like us. We are made up of many layers and we should appreciate ourselves as we are. If you seem unhappy about yourself just think how the different layers of colors spread and how it makes us beautiful. How the animals never give up and hard work . How birds soar high even if they fall several times. How they have patience and protect their loved ones.

How the trees stand tall even they experience heavy winds which make them bend and break . How they go through all the process of fruition and how they wait. They shed their leaves once it’s old and grow new ones. It teaches us to let go of our old habits and inculcate new ones. The seamless ocean teaches us that their is more on the other side and deep beneath. Embrace the unknown.

There is something infinitely healing in the repeated refrains of nature—the assurance that dawn comes after night, and spring after winter. —Rachel Carson

Thank you so much for reading. Much love and healings to you ❤.

Don’t give up what you want most for what you want now💯

Hey, visitors hope you all are doing great. There is a thing called doing what you want. Our wants are endless and we might want more than one thing at a time . But giving up on what you want the most for what you want now is total disappointment. You can take the example of people who wants to lose weight they are exercising everyday to get that perfect body goals but while doing it they get distracted about the wants of taste and rest . They give up the most important want that is being in shape for own benefit .

The idea here is what is most important for you, what you want. You might want to get into a toxic relationship just for the sake of being in relationship and not feeling lonely or you have the other choice, that you want to be loved from a person who is loyal, caring and good for your mental peace. But you are giving up on the long term goal just because you are feeling lonely or everyone is getting into relationship so you want to get in too. If you know the person is toxic and they won’t change their actions and just keep manipulating you by their words isn’t worth it. Sometimes it’s better to give up on what you want now rather than on what you want the most.

It’s exactly like what is your heart wanting the most. You might want to say no to people because you want to be with your friends you enjoy their company, you might think i should go with them now if i don’t they might get angry, but deep inside you don’t feel like going with them because you have different and better things to do. You have to think , work hard now for what you want the most.

Your future is about what you do today and in some manner you have to groom yourself and acquire skills now to become what you want the most. If you stuck between the wants of now like having fun all the time and procrastinating you will sacrifice the greatest success in life. Don’t give up success for what you want now i.e fun . You can enjoy your life and there is no harm in it. But the level and how you manage things and prioritize is the most important factor. You can work hard and enjoy too. You just have to be aware what will be the consequences if you chose what you want now and give up on what you want the most.

Thank you so much for reading . Much love and healings to you ❤.

Focusing on what you have rather than on what you don’t 💯.

Hey, visitors hope you all are doing great. As the title itself says that focusing on what you have is more important and healthy than focusing on what you don’t. Getting flown away with the self criticism, faults and negative thoughts is very much easier than spending time on thinking what we are good at and how can we make it better. No, one is perfect my dear and there is always growth to anything and everything. We have to keep upgrading, there is no particular time for doing a certain thing. It’s the time when you feel like doing, for instance you want to learn a skill and you don’t have the resources fully to learn it. Rather than complaining like i Don’t have money to learn the skills i can’t learn. Always remember where there is a will there’s a way. You can learn that skill by watching videos online you Don’t always particularly need to attend physical class or spend money to gain knowledge. Knowledge is free source and knowledge is knowledge even if we Don’t pay money for it. There is nothing like if you pay thousands you will get good knowledge and learn in free you won’t get. It’s all about your mindset and grasping power and will to learn that skill.

If you keep crying about what you don’t have you will always do the same. You have to focus on what you do have and be grateful for it and make the best out of it. The rest will follow and keeping a growth mindset will lead you to success and abundance. Focus on your strengths rather than weaknesses. Use your weakness as a metric to get insight about what you need to work on. Find a balance in life don’t just keep focusing on negatives.

If you don’t have the power to change something you can’t control don’t even try to do that. You can’t change what everyone is thinking and how they will behave . You only have power to yourself, you can just focus on how to react or think that or not. You are enough you have enough and you will get more than enough just shift your mindset and start learning new skills . There is always growth for improvement. No one is perfect so don’t stress keep trying and you will achieve everything you desire.

Thank you so much for reading. Much love and healings to you ❤.

To be yourself 🌼in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else🥀 is the greatest accomplishment❤.

Hey,visitors hope you all are doing great. As you know being your authentic self is more difficult where pretending and settling ourselves to fit in the standards of the world is more important. As everyone says that fitting in the standards is more important to survive in a society but what about yourself? When you try to be someone else who is not you, it is lying yourself to make others happy. There is no real joy in that and it makes you more insecure and question yourself who i am exactly? What i like exactly? Am i following someone else’s given personality or being myself?

It also has an another side that some people tend to make us better by showing the real mirror and making us remember that what is to be you , what are your strengths, how to overcome weaknesses and how to shine bright even on the worse days. These kind of people are a real gem in our life. As we know we are the average of the 5 people we spend most time with. So , why be with the people who makes you feel insecure, tells you to fit in their standards otherwise they will leave you? Such kind of people in front of whom you have to pretend is really very exhausting. Let them think what they want you can’t make them always happy and it’s not your responsibility to do so if they make you sad most of the time.

You are a beautiful person not on the outside but inside too. You can be the best of yourself once you stop letting others manipulate and change you according to themselves. If they are real they won’t leave you , if they aren’t they won’t give a second thought to leave you so. You have your own opinions, your own life, your own decisions, your own feelings. If someone else doesn’t understand you or make you feel worse it is just that they haven’t live your life so, even if you explain them they won’t understand it. So, it’s better to just smile and say it’s okay it’s my life and we don’t live in the same circumstances. Even if you don’t understand me or think i am wrong , it’s your perception . It’s too heartbreaking, to think of others happiness just being pretending you are happy and what they will think of you. When you can barely make yourself happy!

You will meet lots of people in life. You will choose the right one and more of wrong one’s. But this is necessary to be wrong and learn a lesson from it so that you will know what right one’s feel like. If someone leaves you just because you don’t act according to them it’s their loss not yours. Everyone is unique and you are too. There’s no one out there like you living your life. Life will teach you and will also reach to you for help in unexpected ways. Keep believing in yourself and loving yourself. Just think at the end of the day when you are alone and no one else did you made yourself happy? What one thing you did that made your soul go merry ? If you haven’t made yourself happy how do you think you can make others happy?

To be yourself what you are and believing in yourself is the most difficult yet easy thing at the same time. Yes , sometimes you will too make mistakes, you won’t be right all the time but accepting your mistakes and learning from it and not repeating is the best apology for yourself. Be kind , be your authentic self and let the world adjust ✨.